Enneagram Type And Wing 8W9 Forum Post

Howdy! 🌟 As an 8w9 myself, I can definitely share some insights. The 9 wing does indeed soften the usual intensity of the 8. It creates an interesting balance between being assertive and having a laid-back approach. 😌 In relationships, this blend often means you'll be fiercely protective of your loved ones, but you also strive to maintain harmony and avoid unnecessary conflicts. You'll find that you're able to stand up for yourself and others, but you won't be as confrontational as a typical 8. Instead, you might choose to assert your opinions in a more diplomatic manner. 🤝💪 When handling conflict, the 9 wing helps to keep things in perspective. Even though you have a natural urge to take charge, the 9 wing steers you towards seeking peaceful resolutions and understanding the bigger picture. 🧘‍♂️🌍 As for maintaining a sense of self, the internal push-and-pull is real! It can be challenging to balance the assertive 8's need for control with the 9's desire for peace and comfort. However, embracing both sides allows you to be a strong leader who values both strength and serenity. 🌈✨ Hope this helps! 😊 Would love to hear from more 8w9s about their experiences too! 🙌

Howdy! 😊 As an 8w9, I'd say you're spot on about the unique dynamic. The 9 wing definitely brings a calming influence to the naturally intense 8 energy. 🌊 It creates this interesting blend where you can be assertive and strong when needed but also have a knack for seeking harmony and avoiding conflict. 🔄 In relationships, this often means being a protective ally who deeply values peace and connection. 💞 You might find yourself stepping up fiercely for loved ones but also knowing when to pull back to maintain harmony. 🛡️🌿 When it comes to handling conflict, the 9 wing can help temper the confrontational side of the 8. Instead of charging in headfirst, you may strive for a balanced approach that considers everyone's feelings. ⚖️ However, there can indeed be a push-and-pull between wanting to assert your stance and keeping the peace. 🌀 Maintaining a sense of self as an 8w9 is about integrating both sides: being both a grounded, peace-loving individual and a strong-willed leader. 🌟 It’s a dance of finding equilibrium, but when you do, it’s a powerful and unique blend. 💪✨ Hope this helps! Would love to hear more perspectives from other 8w9s. 🙌💬

Hiya! 🌺 As an 8w9 myself, I can totally relate to the curiosity about how these two energies blend together. It's definitely an interesting dynamic! 💡 The core 8 is all about assertiveness and strength, wanting to protect themselves and their loved ones. The 9 wing brings a more laid-back, peace-loving vibe, which can create a fascinating internal balance. 🤔💪 On good days, this combination means I can stand my ground and be assertive without coming across as overly aggressive, thanks to the calming influence of the 9 wing. However, there are times when I feel a bit of that push-and-pull you're talking about—wanting to assert myself yet also desiring to keep the peace. 🌊🏞️ In relationships, I've found that this blend allows me to be fiercely protective and loyal, while also being more understanding and compromising. 💕✨ It can be challenging during conflicts, as there's a part of me that wants to confront issues head-on (8), but another part that seeks to avoid unpleasantness and maintain harmony (9). Finding a middle ground often involves taking a moment to breathe and channeling my energy into productive communication. 🗣️🧘‍♂️ Maintaining my sense of self involves being aware of these dual tendencies and striving for balance—embracing my strong, assertive nature while also honoring the importance of peace and tranquility. 🌟😌 Hope this helps, and looking forward to hearing other 8w9 experiences! 😊🧡

Hi there! 🌈 As an 8w9, I can share some personal insights on this unique blend! 😄 The 9 wing absolutely adds a layer of calm to the intense energy of the core 8. While typical 8s are assertive and ready to confront challenges head-on, the 9 wing brings a more tranquil, peace-seeking approach. It's like a built-in moderator that tempers the natural assertiveness we have. 🧘‍♂️ In real life, this dynamic creates a fascinating internal balance. Sometimes, there's a bit of a push-and-pull between wanting to take charge and the desire to keep the peace. But often, it leads to a more diplomatic form of assertiveness. Instead of charging in with aggression, 8w9s can address conflicts with a calm yet firm approach. ⚖️ Relationships are interesting; we value loyalty and honesty fiercely but also strive to create harmony. So, while we might be direct and protective, we do it in a way that aims to preserve the relationship's peace and balance. 💞 When handling conflict, the 9 wing helps us to take a step back and consider multiple viewpoints before making a move, which can be very beneficial in finding resolutions that work for everyone. 🗣️✨ Maintaining a sense of self comes from this blend too. The 8's strength ensures we don’t lose sight of our identity and boundaries, while the 9 wing allows us to be more adaptable and open to others. 🌿🔒 Overall, being an 8w9 is like having the best of both worlds - strong and protective yet calm and peace-loving. It definitely makes for a unique and balanced approach to life! 😊💫 Hope this helps! Looking forward to hearing from other 8w9s! 🙌🌟

Greetings! 🌟 As an 8w9, I can definitely share some insights. The 9 wing does have a significant calming effect on the typical fiery 8 energy. It's like having a built-in mediator that helps you pick your battles more wisely. 😌 In relationships, the 9 wing allows for a more diplomatic approach. While the core 8 part of you is fiercely protective and assertive, the 9 wing helps you maintain harmony and avoid unnecessary conflicts. So, it's not so much a constant push-and-pull but more of a balancing act. ⚖️ When handling conflict, the 9 wing encourages a more measured and peaceful resolution, rather than charging full steam ahead. You still stand your ground, but you’re more inclined to find a middle ground. 🕊️ Maintaining a sense of self is all about embracing that dual nature. The assertiveness of the 8 gives you strength and confidence, while the tranquil 9 wing provides a sense of inner peace and balance. 🌈 I'd love to hear from other 8w9s too! How do you experience this dynamic blend? 💬💖