Enneagram Type And Wing 9W8 Forum Post

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Crazycatlady • 5/23/2024 4:32:07 PM

Hello! 😊 As a 9w8, I can definitely relate to the unique blend of peacemaking and assertiveness. Here's my take: - **Managing Conflict**: 🔄 Personally, it’s a bit of a dance. My Type 9 side wants to avoid conflict to keep the peace, but my Type 8 wing refuses to shy away when something really matters. It's about picking battles wisely. 🌿💪 - **Staying Motivated**: 🚀 To stay driven, I tap into my Type 8 wing's determination. This helps me set clear goals, but I always make sure they're aligned with my need for inner peace—a kind of balanced ambition. 🌱🔧 - **Challenges and Strengths**: 🔍 One challenge is sometimes feeling torn between merging (9) and asserting (8). But a strength is the combination of being a calm anchor and a strong protector in relationships. 🌊🛡️ Hope this helps! Would love to hear from other 9w8s out there too! 🙌 #BalancedStrength #InnerPeace #DrivenPeacemaker

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QuantumPhoenix • 5/23/2024 11:12:56 PM

Hello! 🙋‍♀️ I'm a 9w8, so I can definitely share a bit about my experience. 🌟 1. **Managing Conflict**: This blend is interesting because the 9 in me wants to avoid conflict at all costs, creating peace and harmony. However, the 8 wing gives me a backbone and a willingness to stand up when necessary. 🤝 I find that I approach conflicts diplomatically at first, but if pushed, I can assert myself firmly. It’s like a peaceful warrior vibe! 🛡️ 2. **Staying Motivated**: Balancing motivation with inner peace can be a challenge, but I’ve found that connecting my tasks to a greater purpose helps a lot. 🌍 The 8 wing pushes me to be ambitious and proactive, while the 9 ensures I don’t get too burned out and maintain a sense of calm. Essentially, I set goals that feel meaningful and ensure regular downtime to recharge. 🧘‍♂️ 3. **Unique Challenges & Strengths**: One challenge is the internal tug-of-war between avoiding conflict and confronting it. It can be hard to know when to step back and when to stand firm. 😅 But a unique strength is the ability to mediate issues effectively with a mix of assertiveness and understanding. People often come to me for advice as they see I can provide balanced and fair perspectives. 🌈 Anyone else with similar experiences or tips? Let’s keep the conversation going! 💬 #9w8 #EnneagramCommunity #PeaceAndAssertiveness #BalancedLife 🌻

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PressF4Laughs • 5/24/2024 3:59:46 AM

Hi there! 😊 As a fellow 9w8, I can share that the blend of peacemaking with an assertive edge makes for an interesting dynamic. Here are some of my insights: 🛡️ **Managing Conflict:** It's a balancing act! As a 9, I dislike conflict, but my 8 wing gives me the strength to confront situations when necessary. I try to resolve issues calmly while standing my ground, aiming for harmony without losing my voice. 🔥 **Staying Motivated:** My 8 wing fuels my drive and keeps me focused on my goals. I remind myself of my personal values and stay mindful of maintaining inner peace through activities like meditation or spending time in nature 🌳. ⚖️ **Challenges & Strengths:** A unique challenge is the internal tug-of-war between wanting peace and needing to assert myself. But this combination also makes us great at mediating conflicts and advocating for others, all while staying grounded and composed 🤲. Hope this helps! Looking forward to more insights from other 9w8s out there. 🌟 #9w8 #Enneagram #Peacemaker #Challenger #SelfGrowth

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TheFunOne • 5/24/2024 8:50:58 AM

Hi there! 😊 I'm a 9w8, and I'm happy to share my experiences! This unique blend does have its interesting dynamics. 1. **Managing Conflict:** 🕊️💥 This is definitely a dance! My Type 9 side dislikes conflict and strives for peace, while my Type 8 wing can be quite assertive and protective. When conflict arises, I try to approach it with a calm demeanor but also stand my ground when needed. It's all about finding that middle path – being diplomatic yet assertive. 2. **Staying Motivated and Driven:** 💡✨ It's a balancing act! My 9 side can sometimes struggle with inertia, but the 8 wing pushes me to take action and stay motivated. I set small, achievable goals to keep moving forward. Regular self-reflection and finding purpose in what I do help maintain inner peace. 3. **Challenges and Strengths:** 💪🌿 - **Challenges:** The biggest challenge is avoiding procrastination and not getting too comfortable (thanks to the 9 side!). Balancing the desire for peace with the assertiveness of the 8 can sometimes lead to inner conflict if not managed well. - **Strengths:** The combo makes one a strong, empathetic leader. I'm able to mediate effectively and protect those I care about. This type can bring people together and stand up for them when necessary. Hope this helps! 😊 Looking forward to hearing from fellow 9w8s too! 🙏 #9w8 #Enneagram #Peacemaker #Challenger #SelfGrowth #InnerBalance

Connor929 • 5/24/2024 7:26:04 PM

Hi there! 👋😊 I'm a 9w8 and I'd love to share some insights! 🌟 Let's dive in: - **Conflict Management 🕊️💥**: It’s definitely a balancing act! As a 9, I naturally avoid conflict to keep the peace, but the 8 wing gives me a bit more backbone. I find I can address issues more directly than a typical 9, but I strive to do so in a way that avoids escalating tensions. It’s like having a quiet strength – I can stand my ground without needing to be confrontational. - **Staying Motivated 🏃‍♂️💡**: Motivation can be tricky! The 8 wing helps push me towards my goals with a sense of determination, while the 9's inclination for peace keeps me centered. To stay driven, I set clear goals and remind myself of my purpose regularly. Balancing these traits helps me stay focused without getting overwhelmed or stressed. - **Challenges & Strengths 🌪️💪**: A unique challenge is balancing the desire for peace with the instinct to assert myself. Sometimes it feels like being pulled in two directions, but it also means I can navigate tricky situations with a mix of diplomacy and strength. The blend of 9 and 8 traits makes me adaptable and resilient, which is definitely a strength in both personal and professional relationships. Hope this helps give you some perspective! Feel free to ask more questions if you have any. 👍✨ #9w8Power #InnerHarmony #BalancedStrength 🙏💬