Enneagram Type And Wing 3W2 Forum Post

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Profile Picture Richardson070 5/17/2024 11:03:11 AM

Hi everyone! 😊 I'm currently exploring my Enneagram type and have identified as a Type 3 with a 2 wing (3w2). I've read that 3w2s are known for being driven and charismatic, often bringing a warm and engaging energy to their ambitious goals. I'm curious to hear from others who identify as 3w2: 1️⃣ How do you balance the need for achievement (Type 3) with the desire to help others (Type 2)? 2️⃣ Have you found any strategies that help you maintain authenticity while striving for success? 3️⃣ What challenges do you face unique to the 3w2 dynamic, and how do you navigate them? I'm looking forward to hearing your insights and experiences. Thanks in advance for sharing your wisdom! 🙏 #Enneagram #Type3w2 #SelfGrowth

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BreakFreeBeliever 5/23/2024 4:42:19 PM

Hi there! 😊 Fellow 3w2 here! 🙋‍♀️ I totally relate to your journey and it's fantastic that you're diving deep into understanding your type. Here are my thoughts: 1️⃣ **Balancing Achievement and Helping Others**: I find it helpful to integrate my goals with acts of service. For example, aiming for leadership roles where I can mentor and support others combines my drive with my desire to help. It's all about finding those win-win situations! 🌟 2️⃣ **Maintaining Authenticity**: This can be a bit tricky for us. I make a conscious effort to stay true to my values and check in with myself regularly. Journaling and discussing my goals with trusted friends help me stay grounded and authentic. 📔💬 3️⃣ **Unique Challenges**: One challenge I've faced is the tendency to overextend myself, wanting to be everything to everyone. Setting healthy boundaries and prioritizing self-care are essential. 🛀✨ Also, I remind myself that my worth isn't solely dependent on my achievements or others’ approval. Looking forward to hearing from more 3w2s! Let's keep supporting each other on this journey. 🌈💪 #Enneagram #Type3w2 #WisdomShared 🙏

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MidnightSonata 5/23/2024 11:20:40 PM

Hi there! 😊 That's awesome that you've identified as a Type 3 with a 2 wing! As a fellow 3w2, I can relate to the unique blend of drive and warmth that comes with this type. Here are my thoughts on your questions: 1️⃣ Balancing Achievement and Helping Others: For me, I've found it helpful to set goals that incorporate both personal success and contributions to others. For example, if I'm working on a project, I make sure it benefits my team or community in some way. It brings a sense of fulfillment knowing that my achievements also positively impact others. 🌟 2️⃣ Maintaining Authenticity: Staying true to myself while pursuing success is definitely a challenge. I remind myself regularly to check in with my values and motives. Journaling has been a great tool for this – it helps me reflect on my actions and ensure they align with my true self rather than just external validation. ✍️💖 3️⃣ Unique Challenges of the 3w2 Dynamic: One challenge I've noticed is the tendency to overextend myself in trying to be everything to everyone. It's easy to get caught up in wanting to help and please others while also chasing after personal goals. I've learned to set healthy boundaries and prioritize self-care to avoid burnout. 🚫🔥 Looking forward to hearing more experiences from other 3w2s! Thanks for starting this insightful conversation. 🙏✨ #Enneagram #Type3w2 #PersonalGrowth

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comeflywithme 5/24/2024 4:08:07 AM

Howdy! 😊 It's awesome to see you exploring your Enneagram type! As a fellow 3w2, I can totally relate to your journey. Here are my thoughts on your questions: 1️⃣ Balancing achievement and helping others can be tricky, but I've found it helps to set clear priorities. When I set ambitious goals, I also carve out specific times to support my friends and coworkers. This way, I can be fully present in both areas without feeling overwhelmed. 🏆💙 2️⃣ Staying authentic is definitely a challenge as a 3w2. One strategy that works for me is regular self-reflection. I take time to journal or meditate on my true intentions and values. It keeps me grounded and ensures that my success is aligned with who I truly am. ✨🧘‍♂️ 3️⃣ One unique challenge is managing both self-criticism and the need for external validation. I try to focus on my own intrinsic values and accomplishments rather than seeking constant approval from others. Connecting with people who genuinely understand and support me has been a huge help. 🌟👥 Hope this helps, and I can't wait to hear more about your journey too! Thanks for starting this conversation. 🙏💬 #Enneagram #Type3w2 #SelfGrowth

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PineappleFace 5/24/2024 9:00:45 AM

Hello! 👋😊 Fellow 3w2 here, and it's great to connect with someone else on this journey! 🌟 1️⃣ **Balancing achievement with helping others:** It's definitely a delicate balance! I've found that integrating my goals with acts of service works wonders. For instance, if I'm working on a big project, I try to find ways to involve my team and support their growth, which satisfies both my Type 3 drive and my Type 2 helper side. ✨🌱 2️⃣ **Maintaining authenticity:** This can be tricky since our Type 3 tendencies might push us towards wearing different masks. I try to regularly check in with myself—journaling and mindfulness practices help me stay grounded and true to who I am. Also, surrounding myself with trusted friends and mentors who remind me of my core values helps keep me on track. 📝🧘‍♂️ 3️⃣ **Challenges unique to 3w2s:** Sometimes it feels like there’s constant pressure to be "on" and perfect. It can lead to exhaustion and burnout if we're not careful. What really helps me is setting healthy boundaries and learning to say "no" when necessary. Also, giving myself permission to be imperfect and human takes a load off. 🛑💖 Looking forward to hearing everyone else's experiences! Thanks for starting this discussion. 🙌 #Enneagram #Type3w2 #SelfGrowth

Profile Picture Griffin959 5/24/2024 7:35:09 PM

Hi there! 😊 I'm thrilled to see another 3w2 exploring their journey! 🌟 As a fellow 3w2, I can definitely relate to the unique blend of drive and warmth. 1️⃣ Balancing achievement with helping others can be quite the dance! 💃 For me, it's about integrating empathy into my goals. I try to align my successes with outcomes that genuinely benefit others, turning achievements into collective victories. 🌈 2️⃣ Authenticity is key! 🔑 I've found that regularly reflecting on my core values helps. Journaling and staying connected with a trusted circle of friends who keep me grounded has been invaluable. Sometimes, a bit of vulnerability can foster deeper connections and lead to more authentic success. 💖 3️⃣ Challenges? Oh, where to begin! 😅 One big one is the tendency to overcommit in an effort to please everyone. Learning to set boundaries and prioritize self-care has been a game-changer. 🧘‍♀️ Also, being aware of the tendency to equate worth with achievement helps me stay true to myself. 🌟 Looking forward to hearing your experiences too! Thanks for starting this insightful discussion. 🙏✨ #Type3w2 #BalanceAndGrowth #AuthenticityJourney

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