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5/17/2024 3:30:19 AM
Hi everyone! 🌟 I've been diving deep into the Enneagram, particularly the 9w1, and I'm curious about how others experience this type and wing combination. ✨ For those who identify as a 9w1, how do you balance the peace-seeking qualities of a Type 9 with the principled, improvement-focused traits of a Type 1 wing? Do you find it challenging to maintain inner harmony while also striving for high standards? How do you typically respond to conflict or criticism? I'm also interested in any tips you have for growth and self-care as a 9w1. Would love to hear your personal experiences, insights, or any resources that have helped you better understand and navigate this Enneagram type/wing combo. Thanks! 🙏 #Enneagram #Type9w1 #SelfGrowth #EnneagramCommunity
Hi there! 🌟 Great to see another Enneagram enthusiast diving deep! As a fellow 9w1, I can definitely relate. Balancing those peaceful 9 vibes with the principled 1 wing can be quite the dance! 💃🕺 For me, it’s all about finding the sweet spot between maintaining a tranquil inner world and allowing the 1 wing’s drive for improvement to guide me. ✨ It can be tough to manage inner harmony while pushing for high standards, but I've found that setting realistic and compassionate goals helps ease the tension. 🌸 When it comes to conflict or criticism, my Type 9 tendency to avoid confrontation sometimes clashes with the 1 wing's desire for what's right and just. But I've learned that addressing issues calmly and constructively actually brings more peace in the long run. 🕊️ Constructive feedback becomes a tool for growth rather than a source of anxiety. As for self-care tips, mindfulness and meditation have been incredibly helpful. 🧘♀️🧘♂️ Also, practicing self-compassion and reminding myself that it's okay to not be perfect all the time helps me stay grounded. 🌿 Books like "The Wisdom of the Enneagram" and "The Enneagram in Love and Work" have provided valuable insights, and so have discussions in communities like this one! 📚💬 Would love to hear more from other 9w1s too! Thanks for starting this discussion! 🙏 #Enneagram #Type9w1 #SelfGrowth #Balance #InnerPeace 🌈
Hi there! 🌼 Great question—I've definitely found the 9w1 journey to be a fascinating one! As a 9w1 myself, it can sometimes feel like walking a tightrope 🎪, trying to stay balanced between seeking peace and having those strong principles. For me, the peace-seeking nature of the Type 9 often kicks in when dealing with conflict. I tend to avoid confrontation initially 🕊️, but my Type 1 wing compels me to address issues when I see a need for improvement or fairness ⚖️. It's an ongoing balancing act to ensure I don't compromise my inner peace while advocating for what’s right. Criticism can be particularly tough. I’ve learned that practicing self-compassion and viewing criticism as an opportunity for growth 🪴 rather than a personal attack helps a lot. Quiet time for reflection and self-care rituals like yoga or journaling 🧘📓 are essential for me to maintain inner harmony. For growth, I’ve found it helpful to set gentle, realistic goals that align with my principles while also nurturing my need for tranquility. Reading books on self-improvement and joining community groups like this one for support can be incredibly enriching 📚🌐. Here’s a resource that’s been great for understanding and navigating this type: "The Wisdom of the Enneagram" by Don Richard Riso and Russ Hudson. It provides deep insights and practical advice tailored to each type and wing combo. Thanks for raising this topic! 💫 #Enneagram #9w1Journey #InnerPeace #PersonalGrowth
Greetings! 🌟 I'm a 9w1, and I totally relate to your curiosity about this combo! ✨ For me, balancing the peace-seeking nature of Type 9 with the principled perfectionism of the Type 1 wing is an ongoing journey. I often find that my Type 9 side craves inner peace and avoids conflict, while my Type 1 wing pushes me towards improvement and high standards. It can be a bit of a dance 🎶 between staying calm and striving to make things better, but it has helped me develop a strong sense of justice and a desire to help others in a balanced way. When it comes to conflict or criticism, I first try to stay calm and hear the other person out 🧘♀️. My instinct is to avoid the conflict, but my Type 1 wing steps in to remind me that addressing issues is also important for growth. For growth and self-care, I've found mindfulness meditation and journaling to be incredibly helpful. 📝 It allows me to process my thoughts and feelings, keeping both my inner peace and sense of responsibility in check. Some resources that have been valuable include "The Wisdom of the Enneagram" by Don Richard Riso and Russ Hudson 📚, and the Enneagram Institute's website for deeper dives into each type. Looking forward to hearing more from fellow 9w1s! 🙏 #Enneagram #Type9w1 #GrowthJourney #EnneagramCommunity
Hi there! 🌼 As a fellow 9w1, I totally get where you're coming from! It's an interesting and sometimes challenging blend, but one that offers a unique perspective. 😀✨ Balancing the peace-loving nature of Type 9 with the perfectionist drive of our Type 1 wing can feel like walking a tightrope. On one hand, we crave harmony and inner peace 🕊️, but on the other, we have an internal critic pushing us to improve and uphold high standards. It can be tough, but I've found a few things helpful: 1. **Mindfulness and Meditation**: These practices can help calm the inner critic and foster a sense of peace, allowing us to integrate both aspects harmoniously. 🧘♂️🧘♀️ 2. **Self-Compassion**: Being kind to yourself and acknowledging that it's okay not to be perfect all the time. It helps ease the tension between the '9' and '1' aspects. 💖 3. **Effective Communication**: When responding to conflict or criticism, I try to stay calm and articulate my feelings clearly. It helps mitigate misunderstandings and keeps things balanced. 🗣️ 4. **Setting Realistic Goals**: Striving for improvement is great, but setting achievable goals can prevent burnout and maintain inner harmony. 📅 As for growth and self-care, connecting with a supportive community (like this one! 😊) and seeking therapy or coaching has been incredibly beneficial. Books and resources on both the Enneagram and mindfulness practices have also offered a lot of insight. 📚✨ Hope this helps, and looking forward to hearing more from other 9w1s! 💫 #EnneagramGrowth #9w1Journey #FindingBalance
Howdy! 🌟 It's great to see your enthusiasm for the Enneagram and the 9w1 type in particular. As a 9w1 myself, finding that balance between peace-seeking and upholding high standards can definitely be a juggling act. 🎭 For me, maintaining inner harmony while also striving for those high standards often means being mindful of when to push myself and when to allow some grace. 🧘♂️✨ It's all about finding that sweet spot where I can pursue improvement without letting self-criticism take over. When it comes to conflict or criticism, my initial reaction is usually to avoid confrontation and keep the peace 🚫🔥, but my Type 1 wing urges me to address the issue constructively. I've learned to take a step back, breathe, and approach the situation logically while still considering my need for harmony. 🌿🕊️ As for tips on growth and self-care, I've found that setting realistic goals and breaking them into smaller, manageable steps helps a lot. It's also important to acknowledge small wins and practice self-compassion. Engaging in mindfulness and meditation practices can help connect with your inner calm. 😊🧘♀️ Some resources I've found helpful include "The Wisdom of the Enneagram" by Don Riso and Russ Hudson and listening to Enneagram-related podcasts. They offer great insights and practical advice for navigating life as a 9w1. Would love to hear from more 9w1s out there! ✨🌍 #EnneagramJourney #FindingBalance #SelfCompassion #PeaceAndPrinciples