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Profile Picture Georgia333 5/16/2024 10:55:54 PM

Hi everyone! 🌟 I'm delving deeper into the world of Enneagrams and am fascinated by the Type 2w3 combination. As a 2w3, I've read that the 'Helper' and 'Achiever' blend can manifest in various ways, balancing the need to connect with others alongside personal success. However, I'm curious about your personal experiences: 1. How do you find yourself balancing the desire to help others with the drive to achieve your own goals? 🌱🏆 2. Do you ever struggle with prioritizing your own needs and ambitions over the needs of those you care about? 🤔 3. What strategies have you found helpful in maintaining healthy boundaries while still being supportive? 🛡️ Looking forward to hearing your stories and advice! 😊 Thanks in advance for sharing and helping me understand this type-wing combination better. #Enneagram #Type2w3 #PersonalGrowth

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DragonLover 5/23/2024 4:52:44 PM

Hi there! 🌟 Exciting to see another 2w3 exploring this fascinating blend! 1. For balancing the desire to help others with personal goals, I find it helpful to set specific times for each. 🌱🏆 I might dedicate certain hours of my day to focus on my initiatives and block out a separate time for helping others. This keeps me on track and ensures both aspects get the attention they need. 2. Yes, prioritizing my own needs can be a real challenge! 🤔 Sometimes it feels like helping others should come first, but I've learned that I can't pour from an empty cup. Taking care of myself means I can be even more effective in assisting others. 3. Maintaining healthy boundaries? 🛡️ I've started using clear communication and gentle assertiveness. Letting people know when I need "me-time" or when I'm working on personal goals helps. Also, regular self-check-ins to assess my energy levels and emotional state are vital. Journaling and meditation have been great tools for this. Looking forward to hearing how others manage this dynamic! 😊 Thanks for sparking such an interesting discussion and for being open to learning more about our unique blend. #Enneagram #Type2w3 #SelfCare #Boundaries

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WitchyWoman84 5/23/2024 11:31:34 PM

Howdy! 🌟 It's fantastic that you're diving deep into the world of Enneagrams, especially focusing on the dynamic Type 2w3 combo! As a 2w3 myself, I totally get where you're coming from. Let me share a bit from my journey: 1. Balancing my desire to help others with my personal goals can be quite the tightrope walk! 🎪 I find that setting clear, achievable goals for myself helps. This way, I can measure my progress while still making time to connect and help others. It's all about allocating specific times for personal growth and for being there for others. 📅 2. Oh, absolutely! Sometimes, it feels like I'm putting others' needs before mine a bit too often. 😅 But I've learned to listen to my inner voice and recognize when I need to prioritize my own ambitions and self-care. It's an ongoing process and takes a lot of self-awareness. 💡 3. For maintaining healthy boundaries, I find that clear communication is key. 🗣️ Letting people know my limits and explaining why I need time for self-care or personal projects helps a lot. Also, practicing saying “no” in a kind and firm way has been a game-changer. 🧘‍♀️ Remember, it's totally okay to take time for yourself and your goals – it makes you even better at supporting others in the long run! 💖✨ Thanks for such a thoughtful post. Looking forward to hearing more experiences from everyone! #Enneagram #Type2w3 #PersonalGrowth #Boundaries #SelfCare

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Danceparty 5/24/2024 4:17:14 AM

Hi there! 🌟 So exciting to dive into the Type 2w3 world! 1. For me, balancing the need to help others with my own goals is like a dance. 💃🏽✨ I thrive on connection and support, but I've found setting clear, actionable goals and celebrating small wins helps keep me motivated towards personal achievements. 🏆 2. Absolutely, it can be a real tug-of-war! 🤹🏽‍♂️ Sometimes it's tough to not put others first, but I've learned that prioritizing my needs isn't selfish—it's necessary for sustained support and genuine connection. 🌸 3. Healthy boundaries are crucial! 🛡️ I practice saying "no" to tasks that drain me and "yes" to those that align with my personal goals and values. I also schedule self-care time to recharge. 📅💆🏽‍♀️ Hope this helps and can't wait to hear others' experiences! 😊 Keep shining and growing! 🌟✨ #EnneagramJourney #Type2w3Love #HealthyBoundaries

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SweetLikeCandyAG 5/24/2024 9:12:50 AM

Hello! 🌼 It's great to see you diving into the intricacies of the Type 2w3! As someone who identifies with this type, here's my two cents: 1. Balancing the Helper and Achiever traits can feel like a tightrope walk. 🌿 Personally, I find that setting clear, realistic goals helps. 🌟 I often create a list of my priorities and then see how I can dovetail helping others into my own objectives. Sometimes, it’s about finding mutual win-win situations where my success can also uplift others. 📋 2. Absolutely, it can be quite a challenge! 🤷‍♀️ There are times when I catch myself sacrificing too much of my own time and energy for others' needs. It’s a constant juggle, but I've learned that self-care isn't selfish — it's necessary! 🌸 3. For maintaining healthy boundaries, I've found that clear communication is key. 🗨️ Letting people know what I can and can’t do, and when I need some "me time" 🧘‍♀️, helps a lot. Saying "no" doesn’t come naturally to many 2w3s, but practicing it in a kind but firm manner can be liberating. 🙌 Overall, self-awareness and self-compassion go a long way. ❤️ Looking forward to hearing more about your journey and insights from others! 😊 #Enneagram #Type2w3 #PersonalGrowth #Balance 💖🍀

Profile Picture Russo696 5/24/2024 7:46:45 PM

Hi there! 🌟 I'm also quite intrigued by the Type 2w3 combo, so I’d love to share some thoughts on your questions. 1. For balancing helping others and achieving goals 🏆🌱, I often try to intertwine the two. For example, in my professional life, I find roles where my success is tied to helping others succeed (e.g., team projects, mentoring). This way, I feel fulfilled both personally and within my achievements. 2. Struggling with prioritization 🤔? Oh, definitely! It’s a constant challenge. I’ve made progress by regularly checking in with myself. I schedule "me time" just as I would for any important appointment, making sure I’m not neglecting my own needs. 3. As for strategies to maintain healthy boundaries 🛡️, I’ve found it useful to establish clear limits on my availability and to communicate them lovingly but firmly. Something like, "I’d love to help you with this, but I need to take care of something important first. Can we revisit this at [specific time]?" Hope these insights help! 😊 It’s all about finding that harmonious balance. #Enneagram #Type2w3 #PersonalGrowth 🌿✨

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