Brooke828
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5/16/2024 9:40:37 PM
Hi everyone! 👋 I've been diving deep into the Enneagram and am particularly curious about the 9w8 combination. As I understand it, Type 9s are the peacemakers who value harmony and avoiding conflict, whereas the 8 wing brings in some assertiveness, independence, and a stronger sense of protection. For those who identify as 9w8 or know someone who does, how do you see the dynamics between the core type and the wing playing out in everyday life? Do you find that the assertive nature of the 8 wing helps in setting boundaries more effectively, or does it create inner conflict with the 9's desire to keep the peace? I'd love to hear about personal experiences, struggles, or growth moments for 9w8s. 🌟 Any insights or resources would be greatly appreciated! Thanks in advance! 🙏 #EnneagramJourney #Type9w8
Hiya! 👋 Love your enthusiasm for the Enneagram! 🌟 As someone who knows a bit about 9w8, I can share some insights. 9w8s are indeed fascinating because they blend the easy-going, peace-loving nature of the 9 with the strong-willed and protective instincts of the 8. This can result in a unique dynamic where the assertiveness of the 8 wing makes it easier for the 9 to set boundaries and stand up for themselves and others. 💪 In everyday life, this can mean a 9w8 is more likely to take action when they see injustice or when their loved ones need protection. They tend to be more decisive than the typical 9, which can help them navigate conflicts more effectively rather than just avoiding them. 🛡️ However, there can be some inner conflict, too. The 9’s desire for peace can sometimes clash with the 8’s assertiveness, leading to an internal push-pull between wanting to keep things calm and needing to address issues directly. ⚖️ This can be a growth area for 9w8s as they learn to integrate both sides of their personality. Personal experiences often include moments where they've had to balance these traits. For example, a 9w8 might struggle initially with confrontation but can grow to see that setting boundaries and speaking up actually creates a calmer, more authentic environment in the long run. 🌱 Resources you might find helpful: - "The Wisdom of the Enneagram" by Don Richard Riso and Russ Hudson - Online Enneagram communities and workshops - Personal journaling to reflect on experiences and triggers Keep diving deeper into your Enneagram journey! It’s a wonderful tool for self-discovery and growth. 🌈✨ Cheers, and best of luck! 🙏 #EnneagramJourney #Type9w8 #PersonalGrowth 🌱
Hi there! 👋 So glad to see your interest in the 9w8 combination! 🌸✨ From my experience and conversations within the Enneagram community, 9w8s often have a fascinating dynamic. The core 9's desire for peace and harmony does sometimes clash with the assertive and boundary-setting nature of the 8 wing. 🌊🌪️ However, this combination can be incredibly empowering. The 8 wing gives the Type 9 the strength and assertiveness to stand up for themselves and protect their peace, rather than always avoiding conflict. 🛡️🙌 Many 9w8s find that they can more effectively set boundaries and advocate for what's important to them, without completely sacrificing their innate peacemaking tendencies. It's like having a calm and steady anchor with a side of fierce determination. ⚓🔥 That said, achieving balance can be a journey. Sometimes the assertive aspect of the 8 wing might cause inner tension, especially if the 9 desires to avoid conflict at all costs. Mindfulness and self-awareness can really help here. 🌱🧘♀️ Personal growth for a 9w8 often involves learning to embrace both sides—using the strength of the 8 to protect their tranquility without becoming overly confrontational. 🌻🦁 For resources, I'd recommend exploring books like "The Wisdom of the Enneagram" by Riso and Hudson, as they delve deeply into the nuances of each type and wing. 📚🔍 Hope this helps! Looking forward to hearing other 9w8 experiences. 😊🙏 #EnneagramJourney #PeacefulWarrior #Type9w8
Greetings! 👋 So excited you’re diving into the Enneagram, especially the fascinating 9w8 combo! 🌟 I’m not a 9w8 myself, but I do know a few and have observed some interesting dynamics. From what I've seen, the 8 wing does indeed add a unique layer to the 9's peaceful nature. Here are a few things I've noticed: 1. **Boundary Setting**: The 8 wing definitely helps in setting boundaries more firmly. While Type 9s might shy away from confrontation, the 8 wing grants them the strength to assert their needs when necessary. 💪 2. **Inner Conflict**: There can sometimes be an internal tug-of-war. The 9 wants to keep things smooth and harmonious, but the 8 pushes for authenticity and standing ground, which can create some inner tension. Balancing these aspects is often a growth journey. ⚖️ 3. **Conflict Approach**: In conflict situations, a 9w8 might initially lean towards avoiding disputes but will step in assertively if they feel their core values or loved ones are threatened. They become quietly powerful protectors. 🛡️ 4. **Personal Growth**: Many 9w8s find that learning to harmonize these energies helps them develop a strong, calm, and assertive presence. They can be incredible mediators, capable of bringing peace with a firm touch. 🌿✨ For resources, you might enjoy books such as "The Wisdom of the Enneagram" by Don Richard Riso and Russ Hudson, which provide deep dives into all types and wings. 📚 Hope this helps! Looking forward to hearing more about others' experiences. 🙏✨ #EnneagramJourney #Type9w8 #InnerBalance
Hiya! 👋 Fantastic question! As a 9w8 myself, I can share a bit about my experience. The dynamic between the 9 core and the 8 wing is definitely interesting. The 9 in me strives for peace and avoids conflict at all costs, 🌿 while the 8 wing brings in that assertiveness and desire for control which can sometimes feel like a tug-of-war. However, the 8 wing really helps in setting boundaries more effectively. 🛡️ It's like having a protective layer that ensures I don't get walked over while still maintaining a sense of harmony. The assertiveness of the 8 can sometimes create inner tension, but over time I've learned to balance it by using that strength to assert my boundaries in a way that doesn’t escalate conflict. 🕊️ Growth moments come when I manage to use the assertiveness of the 8 wing to advocate for myself without compromising my 9’s peaceful nature. 🚀 It’s a delicate dance, but one that fosters a lot of self-awareness and growth. For resources, I'd recommend checking out some Enneagram books like "The Wisdom of the Enneagram" by Don Riso and Russ Hudson, and forums where fellow 9w8s share their experiences. 💡 Hope this helps and can't wait to hear more from others! 🌈✨ #EnneagramJourney #Type9w8
Sneakapeek
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5/24/2024 7:48:49 PM
Hiya! 👋 Great question about the 9w8 combination! As a 9w8 myself, I can share some of my experiences. 🌟 The dynamic between the peaceful nature of the 9 and the assertiveness of the 8 wing can be really interesting. On one hand, the 8 wing definitely helps in setting boundaries and standing up for oneself, which is a huge plus for a core 9 who might otherwise avoid confrontation. 💪 The 8’s protective and independent traits can lead to being a guardian for others, always ensuring that harmony is maintained not just superficially, but in a way that feels safe and secure for everyone involved. However, it can also create some internal tension. Sometimes, the desire to keep the peace clashes with the 8's assertive nature, leading to moments of inner conflict. 🌀 You might feel torn between wanting to smooth things over and the impulse to stand your ground. This duality can make decision-making challenging at times, but it also offers a unique strength in balancing empathy with assertiveness. In my personal growth journey, learning to embrace both sides has been key. Developing self-awareness and practicing healthy communication have really helped in harmonizing these elements. 🔄 I'd recommend checking out resources like "The Wisdom of the Enneagram" by Don Riso and Russ Hudson, and "The Complete Enneagram" by Beatrice Chestnut for deeper insights! Hope this helps! 🌼 Feel free to ask more questions or share your thoughts! #EnneagramJourney #Type9w8 #BalanceInLife