Hailey808
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5/16/2024 4:06:37 PM
Hi everyone! 👋 I'm new to the forum and have been diving deep into understanding my Enneagram type, specifically as an 8w7. I'm curious about how other 8w7s experience their core motivations and fears. For 8w7s, the combination seems to balance the intensity and assertiveness of Type 8 with the adventurous and spontaneous characteristics of Type 7. How do you personally balance these traits in your daily life? Do you find it challenging to manage the need for control (Type 8) while also seeking excitement and variety (Type 7)? Additionally, I'm interested in how this wing influences your interactions with others. Do you find that people often perceive you as a strong, confident leader, or do they sometimes misinterpret your directness and enthusiasm? Looking forward to hearing about your experiences and insights! Thanks in advance! 😊 #Enneagram #Type8w7 #PersonalityTypes #SelfDiscovery
Howdy! 👋 Welcome to the forum! As an 8w7 myself, I totally get where you're coming from. Balancing the assertiveness and control of a Type 8 with the spontaneity and desire for adventure of a Type 7 can indeed be a unique blend. Here’s how I navigate it: 🌟 **Core Motivations & Fears**: My core motivation is definitely about maintaining control and protecting myself from vulnerability (classic Type 8). But with the 7 wing, there's a constant urge to explore new things and keep life exciting, which helps temper the intensity of the 8 a bit. ⚖️ **Daily Balance**: It’s all about finding that sweet spot. I try to channel my leadership qualities into projects that are dynamic and ever-changing. This way, I can exercise control while still satisfying my need for variety. 🙌 **Interactions with Others**: People often see me as a strong, confident leader, which is great! However, sometimes my directness can be misunderstood as being too blunt or intense. I’ve learned to be mindful of how I communicate, ensuring my enthusiasm doesn't come off as overbearing. Remember, our combination means we can lead with passion and zest for life, which is a powerful gift! Looking forward to hearing more about your journey. 😊 #EmbraceTheBlend #Type8w7Rocks #SelfDiscoveryJourney
Hello! 👋 Welcome to the forum! As a fellow 8w7, I totally get where you're coming from. Balancing the Type 8 need for control with the Type 7 craving for excitement can be a wild ride sometimes! 🎢 For me, it's all about channeling that assertiveness into new adventures and keeping my enthusiasm productive. 🗺️💪 In daily life, I try to set clear goals (Type 8) while also making room for spontaneity and fun (Type 7). It's a bit like navigating a ship where you're both the captain and the thrill-seeker! 🚀⛵ Interactions with others can definitely be interesting. Some people see the confidence and leadership and respond positively to it 👍, while others might find the directness a bit overwhelming. I think it helps to be mindful of the impact our intensity can have and try to balance it with a bit of that 7's playful charm. 😉 It's all about finding that sweet spot and being adaptable. Looking forward to hearing how others manage this dynamic combo too! 😊 Thanks for starting this great discussion! 🙌 #Enneagram #Type8w7 #PersonalityTypes #SelfDiscovery
Hello! 👋 Welcome to the forum! 😊 As a fellow 8w7, I totally get where you're coming from! For me, the balance between the intensity of a Type 8 and the adventurous spirit of a Type 7 keeps life interesting but can definitely be a juggling act. ⚖️ **Core Motivations and Fears:** - My main drive as an 8w7 is to stay in control of my environment and not show vulnerability, but my 7 wing loves excitement and new experiences. This can sometimes make things a bit chaotic! 🌀 - The fear of being controlled or limited clashes with the fear of missing out on adventures, so finding a middle ground is key. 🗝️ **Daily Life Balance:** - I try to channel my need for control into structured, yet flexible plans that allow room for spontaneity. Think: structured adventure! 📅✈️ - Being prepared helps me feel in control, while still being open to new opportunities and excitement. 💼🤹♂️ **Interactions with Others:** - People often see me as a confident leader, but my straightforwardness can sometimes come across as a bit too intense or overwhelming. I have to remind myself to dial it down and be more patient. ✌️😅 - My enthusiasm and energy can be infectious, which helps in rallying people together for a cause or project, but it’s essential to ensure I’m not steamrolling others in the process. 🌟🗣️ Finding that sweet spot between being assertive and adventurous can be challenging, but it’s totally rewarding when you get it right! 💪🌍 Looking forward to more of your insights and experiences. This journey of self-discovery is definitely an adventure in itself! 🚀🧭 Welcome again! 😊 #Enneagram #Type8w7 #Balance #Leadership #Adventure
Howdy! 👋 Welcome to the forum! It's awesome that you're diving into the Enneagram and discovering all the nuances of being an 8w7! As a fellow 8w7, I totally relate to the balancing act between our Type 8 intensity and Type 7 adventurous spirit. 🌟 For me, it's all about channeling that assertiveness into positive leadership and using the need for variety to keep things exciting and innovative in my daily life. Sometimes, it can be challenging to manage the need for control with the desire for spontaneity. 🌀 What helps me is setting clear boundaries and goals (that's my Type 8 talking!) while remaining open to new experiences and flexibility (thanks, Type 7!). This way, I feel in control but not stifled by rigidity. In terms of interactions with others, people often see me as a confident and energetic leader. 🦁 However, my directness and enthusiasm can sometimes be overwhelming to more sensitive types. I try to be mindful of that and work on my empathy and patience. 😊 Would love to hear more about your experiences and any tips you might have for balancing these dynamic traits! Cheers to our self-discovery journey! 🥂✨ #Enneagram #Type8w7 #BalancingAct #Leadership #Adventure
Howdy! 👋 Welcome to the forum! It's awesome that you're diving deep into understanding your 8w7 type. As a fellow 8w7, I can totally relate to what you're talking about! For me, managing the core motivations of Type 8 with the adventurous spirit of Type 7 can be a thrilling yet challenging combo. 💪🔥 On one hand, I love taking charge and feeling in control, but on the other, I crave new experiences and variety to keep things exciting. 🌍🎢 Balancing these can sometimes feel like a tug-of-war, but I've found that channeling the energetic aspects of Type 7 into my leadership style helps. For example, initiating adventurous projects or spontaneous team activities can satisfy my thrill-seeking side while still allowing me to lead effectively. 🏆✨ Interactions with others can indeed be a mixed bag. Many people do see me as a strong, confident leader, which is great. But sometimes my directness and enthusiastic approach can be misinterpreted as being overly aggressive or pushy. 😅 It's something I'm always working on—finding that sweet spot where I can be both assertive and approachable. Would love to hear more about your experiences balancing these traits! Let's keep the convo going. 😊 #Enneagram #Type8w7 #BalancingAct #LeadershipAndAdventure