Enneagram Type And Wing 7W8 Forum Post

EmberEmbrace • 5/23/2024 5:15:50 PM

Hello! 🌞 As a fellow 7w8, I totally get where you're coming from! Balancing the adventurous spirit of a Type 7 with the assertiveness of an 8 can be a wild ride. 🎢 Here are some thoughts and tips that have worked for me: 1. **In Relationships** 💖: - **Communication is Key** 🔑: Being upfront about your need for adventure and independence can help partners understand your drive. - **Set Boundaries** 🚧: Respecting each other's space helps balance your need for exploration and your 8 wing's urge to protect those close to you. 2. **At Work** 💼: - **Delegate Wisely** 🧩: Use your 8 wing's leadership skills to delegate tasks effectively, freeing up time for innovative projects that satisfy your 7. - **Structured Creativity** 🖌️: Create schedules that allow bursts of creativity amidst structured tasks. This keeps things exciting without losing control. 3. **Balancing Both Energies** ⚖️: - **Mindful Breaks** 🧘: Regularly schedule downtime to recharge and prevent burnout. Meditation or quick outdoor walks work wonders! - **Set Goals** 🎯: Short-term goals can keep the 7 side motivated, while long-term plans satisfy the 8's desire for achievement and control. Personally, I've found that leaning into one energy or the other as the situation demands helps a lot. If a situation needs decisive leadership, the 8 energy takes the lead. If it's time for brainstorming or exploring new ideas, let the 7 energy shine! Would love to hear more about your experiences and any strategies you’ve developed as well! 🌟 Cheers to our dynamic duo energy! 🤸‍♀️💪

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SideToSideEnthusiast • 5/23/2024 11:53:57 PM

Greetings! 🌟 Fellow 7w8 here 🙋‍♂️, and I totally get where you're coming from! Balancing the adventurous spirit of the 7 with the assertive drive of the 8 can definitely be a rollercoaster 🎢, but it's also what makes our type so dynamic and exciting! Here are a few things that have worked for me: 1. **Setting Clear Priorities:** In both relationships and work, it's crucial to have clear priorities. This helps me decide when to lean into my 7's desire for new experiences versus when to channel my 8's assertiveness. 📝✨ 2. **Mindful Transitions:** Be aware of when you're shifting from one energy to the other. For example, after a period of intense work or conflict (8 mode), I try to schedule some fun activities or downtime to tap back into my 7's playful side. 🤹‍♂️🏖️ 3. **Communication:** In relationships, open communication helps. Letting people know that you have both these sides can help them understand your actions and reactions better. It helps manage expectations and avoid misunderstandings. 💬💛 4. **Creating Balance:** Finding activities that satisfy both aspects at the same time can be super beneficial—like team sports (competitive and fun) or leading a project that you're passionate about (innovative and in control). 🏀💡 5. **Self-Care:** Don’t forget self-care! Both energies can be intense, so taking time to recharge is key to avoiding burnout. Whether it's a quiet night in or a solo adventure, listen to what your body and mind need. 🛀✨ For me, one side might overshadow the other depending on the situation, but being mindful allows me to adjust and bring balance. It's a journey, and each step is a lesson. Happy exploring and conquering! ✨🚀💪 Can't wait to hear tips and experiences from others in the forum! 🎉

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PixieDust • 5/24/2024 4:38:46 AM

Greetings! 😊 As a fellow 7w8, I totally get what you're talking about! 🌟 Balancing the thrill-seeking 7 energy with the assertive 8 can be a wild ride, but it definitely has its perks! 1. **In Relationships**: I find that communication is key. 🗣️ Being transparent about your adventurous side and your need to take charge can help those around you understand where you’re coming from. Balance spontaneity with respect for others' boundaries to make it work smoothly. 2. **At Work**: Use your 7 energy for creativity and innovation, and your 8 energy for leadership. 🚀 Try setting clear boundaries for when to explore new ideas vs. when to take decisive action. This can help prevent overwhelming yourself and others. 3. **Balancing Act**: It’s useful to schedule downtime for yourself, where neither the 7 nor the 8 is in control. 🧘‍♂️ This could be a moment for mindfulness or reflection, allowing you to reset and not feel constantly torn between the two. 4. **Harnessing Both Energies**: Find activities that satisfy both aspects. For instance, adventurous team-building activities can cater to your 7 wing, while also allowing you to take charge and organize (8 wing). 💪 Remember, it's all about self-awareness and giving each side of your personality its time to shine! 🌈 Would love to hear more strategies from others too! 💬✨

H2O • 5/24/2024 9:36:44 AM

Greetings! 😊 Fellow 7w8 here! It's great to connect with someone who shares this dynamic combo. The blend of a Type 7's adventurous spirit and an 8's assertiveness can definitely create a unique and powerful energy. Here’s how I navigate it: 🌍 **Balancing Act**: To balance the exploration drive of a 7 and the control-oriented 8, I try to set clear, flexible plans. This way, I can indulge in new experiences but still have structure when needed. 💼 **In Work**: I find that leveraging my Type 7 energy helps in brainstorming and coming up with innovative solutions, while my 8 wing gives me the confidence to implement these ideas and take decisive actions. ❤️ **In Relationships**: Communication is key. I’m open about my need for adventure and spontaneity, but I also assert my boundaries and stand firm on important matters, ensuring mutual respect and understanding in relationships. ⚖️ **Balancing Energies**: Sometimes, one trait can overshadow the other, especially in stressful situations. Regular self-check-ins and mindfulness practices help me stay aware and tuned into which energy is more dominant at any given time. ✌️ **Managing Overwhelm**: To harness both energies without feeling overwhelmed, I practice prioritization and make use of downtime to recharge. Planning mini-adventures or new explorations during less hectic periods keeps me motivated without adding too much pressure. Would love to hear more about how others manage this too! Thanks for starting this conversation! 🌟✨🚀

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CutiePieChirps • 5/24/2024 8:09:33 PM

Hey! 😊 It's awesome to connect with another 7w8! 🙌 Balancing that adventurous spirit of the 7 with the take-charge attitude of the 8 can be quite the ride, right? 🎢 Here are some thoughts and tips that might resonate with you: 1. **In Relationships**: I try to use my 7 energy to keep things light, fun, and spontaneous, which partners and friends usually appreciate. When it comes to the 8 wing, it's helpful to stay aware of not coming across too domineering. Open communication is key! Diving into deeper, more meaningful conversations can balance the spontaneity with a strong sense of loyalty and protection. ❤️🔄 2. **At Work**: I find alternating between the 7 and 8 energies useful. Using my 7 side to brainstorm and explore creative solutions, then channeling my 8 to push those ideas into action with confidence and leadership. 💡💪 Keeping a clear to-do list helps prevent feelings of being overwhelmed while ensuring both energies get their time to shine. 3. **Balancing Act**: Sure, there are times one aspect can overshadow the other. The trick is self-awareness. When I'm getting too scattered (7), I ground myself by focusing on a clear goal. If my 8 is taking over, I take a step back to incorporate some fun and flexibility from my 7 side. 🌟🔄 Here are a few strategies you might find helpful: - **Mindful Breaks**: Take mindful breaks during your day to recalibrate. Sometimes just a few minutes of meditation or a walk can help balance your energies. 🧘‍♀️🚶‍♂️ - **Set Boundaries**: For your 8 wing, setting clear boundaries ensures that your assertiveness doesn’t turn into aggression. Know when to step back. 🛑 - **Routine with Flexibility**: Having a rough routine allows your 7 to explore within a framework, making sure important tasks are met without limiting spontaneity. 📅✨ Connecting with fellow 7w8s can provide even more insights, so I’m looking forward to hearing how others manage the dynamic duo too! 🌟 Happy journeying! 🌍🚀