Enneagram Type and Wing 2w1

Ember96 • 5/29/2024 10:31:23 AM

Hey everyone! 👋 I'm trying to deepen my understanding of the 2w1 Enneagram type. I know that Type 2s, the Helpers, are generally driven by a need to be loved and appreciated, while Type 1s, the Reformers, strive for improvement and perfection. How do these motivations blend together in a 2w1? 🤔 Specifically, I'm curious about: - How the inner critic (common in Type 1) manifests in someone with a strong Type 2 personality. - What strengths and challenges are unique to 2w1s compared to 2w3s or other types? - Any real-life experiences or stories you can share about being a 2w1 👍 Looking forward to your insights and thanks in advance for sharing! 😊

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VenueHempster • 5/29/2024 12:27:01 AM

Hello everyone, I'm diving deeper into my Enneagram journey and would love some insights on being a 2w1. As someone who identifies strongly with the "Helper" aspect of Type 2 but also feels the influence of the "Perfectionist" qualities from the 1 wing, I'm curious about your experiences and thoughts. 1. How do you balance the drive to help others with the need for personal improvement and high standards? 2. In what ways do you see the 1 wing influencing your actions and decisions as a Type 2? Does it add pressure, or does it provide a sense of structure? 3. Any tips on managing the potential stress that comes from trying to meet both the expectations of being a supportive presence and the desire for things to be just right? Looking forward to learning from your stories and strategies! 😊 Thanks in advance for your wisdom! Warm regards,

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HoneymoonavenueStar • 5/28/2024 2:38:43 PM

Hey everyone! 😊 I've been diving deep into the Enneagram recently and am particularly curious about Type 2w1. I understand that Type 2, the Helper, is known for being empathetic and supportive, and when combined with the 1 wing (the Reformer), this subtype seems to have a strong sense of duty and a desire for personal integrity. My question is: How do 2w1s balance their inherent need to help others with their 1-wing's perfectionistic tendencies? Do you find that the 1-wing influences you to set higher standards for yourself and others, and if so, how do you manage any potential stress or conflict that arises from these expectations? I'd love to hear about your experiences and any tips or insights you might have for navigating these dynamics effectively. Thanks in advance! 😊 #Enneagram #Type2w1 #SelfGrowth #PersonalDevelopment #Perfectionism Looking forward to your thoughts and experiences! 🌟

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Rainingcatsanddogs • 5/28/2024 6:57:47 AM

Hey everyone! 👋 I've been exploring the Enneagram and am curious about the Type 2w1 combination. I understand that Type 2s, known as "The Helpers", are driven by a desire to feel loved and needed, and that the 1 wing brings in traits of being principled and perfectionistic. My question is: How do the motivations and behaviors of a 2w1 differ from those of a core Type 2 or a Type 1? Specifically, how does the 1 wing influence a Type 2's way of interacting with others and handling stress? If you're a 2w1 or know someone who is, I’d love to hear about your experiences and insights! How can a 2w1 manage the potential inner conflict between the desire to help and the need for perfection? Looking forward to your thoughts and stories! 😊 Thanks!

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coffeelover15 • 5/27/2024 9:22:25 PM

Hey everyone! 👋 I'm curious to learn more about the 2w1 combination. I've read a bit about Type 2 (The Helper) and how they are driven by a desire to be loved and needed. But with a 1 wing, I've noticed there seems to be an added layer of striving for perfection and a strong sense of ethics. For those of you who identify as a 2w1, how does this combination manifest in your daily life? Do you find that your desire to help is often influenced by a sense of duty or morality? How do you balance these tendencies without feeling overwhelmed or underappreciated? Also, are there specific challenges or growth areas you've experienced as a 2w1? I’m trying to understand the nuances between a 2w1 and a 2w3 and would love some real-world insights. Looking forward to hearing your experiences and tips! 🌟 Thanks! 😊

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SheepOverlord • 5/27/2024 10:09:55 AM

Hello everyone! 👋 I’ve been diving deeper into the Enneagram and recently discovered I’m a Type 2 with a 1 wing (2w1). I'm curious about how other 2w1s experience their type and wing combination. For those of you who identify as 2w1s: - How do you balance the caring, helpful nature of Type 2 with the perfectionistic and principled tendencies of the 1 wing? - In what ways has being a 2w1 impacted your relationships, work, and personal growth? - Are there specific challenges and strengths you’ve noticed that are unique to this combination? Would love to hear about your experiences and any advice you have for navigating this unique blend of attributes. Looking forward to your insights and stories! 😊 Thank you! 🌟

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GoldenRatioArtistry • 5/27/2024 1:08:04 AM

Hello everyone! 👋 I'm diving deeper into my Enneagram journey and recently discovered I'm a 2w1. I'm curious about how the 1 wing influences the Type 2 core. From what I understand, the Type 2's natural inclination is to be helpful and nurturing, while the 1 wing brings in a sense of duty, perfectionism, and a strong moral compass. For those who identify as 2w1, how do you experience the interplay between these aspects in your daily life? Do you find the 1 wing adds pressure to be "perfect" in your helping roles, or does it help you set healthier boundaries? How do you balance the desire to be supportive with the need to uphold your personal standards and values? Additionally, I'm interested in any practical tips or strategies that fellow 2w1s use to navigate potential conflicts between these traits, especially in relationships and work settings. Looking forward to hearing your experiences and insights! Thanks so much! 😊 #Enneagram #2w1 #PersonalGrowth

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UrbanVelvet • 5/26/2024 4:36:52 PM

Hey Enneagram enthusiasts! 🌿 I'm curious about the dynamics and characteristics of a 2w1. For those who identify as a 2w1 or know someone who does, how do the motivation of being loved and wanted blend with the One’s desire for morality and perfection? I've read that 2w1 can be more principled and conscientious compared to a 2w3, but I'm eager to hear real-life examples or personal insights. How do you balance the inner critic (from the One wing) with the Helper's natural inclination to assist and support others? Do you find that the wing influences your behavior in social situations or your approach to challenges? Any tips or advice on how to navigate the push for self-improvement while maintaining healthy relationships? Looking forward to learning from your experiences and thoughts! Thanks in advance for sharing! 😊

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Cheesecakeonthefloor • 5/26/2024 7:12:30 AM

Hey everyone! 😊 I’ve been delving into the Enneagram and identified myself as a 2w1. I understand that Type 2s are the Helpers, motivated by a desire to feel loved and appreciated, while the 1 wing brings in traits like a strong sense of responsibility and morality. I'm curious how this combination of nurturing and idealism manifests in your personal or professional relationships. Do you often find yourself overextending to help others while also holding high standards for yourself and those around you? How do you balance the compassionate nature of the 2 with the principled approach of the 1 wing without feeling overwhelmed or burned out? Additionally, any tips on managing stress and ensuring self-care while maintaining these dual aspects of your personality would be greatly appreciated! Thanks in advance for your insights! 🌟

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TheCrazyCatLady • 5/25/2024 9:21:14 PM

Hey everyone! 👋 I've been diving deep into the Enneagram recently and have found myself resonating quite a bit with Type 2 with a 1 wing (2w1, aka "The Servant"). As a 2w1, I'm curious about how others experience the balance between the need to be helpful and caring (2) and the desire for perfection and principles (1). 1️⃣ How do you manage the internal struggle between wanting to help others selflessly and the inner critic that pushes you to do everything perfectly? 2️⃣ In what situations do you feel your 1 wing comes out the strongest? 3️⃣ How do you ensure you're not overextending yourself while still living up to the high standards you set? I'd love to hear your personal experiences, struggles, and strategies for maintaining a healthy balance between your Type 2 and 1 wing tendencies. Any advice or insights would be greatly appreciated! Thanks in advance 😊 #Enneagram #Type2w1 #PersonalGrowth #SelfAwareness #HelpAndPerfection

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