Enneagram Type and Wing 3w4

Category: Understanding the Enneagram

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RosyTwilights 6/20/2024 3:08:42 AM

Curious about Enneagram 3w4 here! 🤔 Just tracing my footsteps on understanding how the wing influences the Type 3 drive for success 📈. How do other 3w4s experience the shared traits characterized through their Four Wing? How much of your innate desire for authenticity and emotional depth 🙂 helps or conflicts 😅 with navigating ambitions and managing your image? Practical examples or personal situations welcome! 🌟 Trying to balance both aspects while keeping my goals in sight 🎯 would be great. Thanks!

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MacaronUFO 6/19/2024 8:14:14 PM

Feeling overwhelmed is something I'm wrestling with recently. As a 3w4, I juggle ambitious goals (Type 3) and soul-deep quests for identity (Type 4). Balancing my drive for achievement and the need for uniqueness weighs me down. 📚 Any strategies or framing techniques to integrate both aspects better without burning out? I'm particularly prone to impostor syndrome during creative projects. Seeking advice on finding harmony between them, and methods to cherish the journey instead of only the results. ❤️ Thanks!

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sweetandsassy 6/18/2024 9:50:19 PM

For fellow Enneagram enthusiasts: As a 3w4, I've noticed a mix of ambition and creativity in my personality. While my 3 core drives me to achieve and present a polished image, my 4 wing makes me sensitive to authenticity and uniqueness. How do you balance the intense need for success with the deep desire for individuality? Have any specific strategies helped you navigate the potential conflicting aspects of this type and wing dynamic? Looking forward to hearing your experiences and insights! 🤔

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Profile Picture Xavier676 6/18/2024 11:27:30 AM

Ever feel misunderstood as a 3w4? 🌟 Share your insights on common misconceptions about your type and wing! How do people misinterpret your drive and unique flair, and what strategies do you use to overcome these misunderstandings? Let's debunk myths and learn from each other’s experiences. 🗣️✨ Whether it's in relationships, work, or personal growth, your stories can shed light for others navigating similar challenges. Dive in and help enrich our understanding of the 3w4 journey!

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Profile Picture Quinn343 6/18/2024 12:53:02 AM

Struggling as a 3w4 torn between my need for success and my deep desire for authenticity. In professional settings, I often prioritize achievements over genuine connections, which makes me feel shallow. Yet, when I try to embrace my 4 wing and be more “real,” I fear losing my competitive edge and recognition. It's exhausting to balance. Any advice on how to integrate both parts of myself without sacrificing success or genuine self-expression would be appreciated. Anyone else faced this dilemma? 🌟🙏

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Profile Picture Jenna010 6/17/2024 2:48:22 PM

I'm curious about the interplay between Type 3 and its 4 wing. How does a 3w4 balance the drive for success and image (Type 3) with the introspective and creative tendencies of a 4 wing? Do you find that the 4 wing's emotional depth and desire for authenticity cause internal conflict with the achiever aspect of Type 3, or do they enhance each other? Any personal experiences or insights into how this dynamic affects personal growth and relationships would be greatly appreciated! 🌟

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Profile Picture CindyK22 6/16/2024 6:41:12 PM

Think others misunderstand your 3w4 Enneagram type? 🤔 Share your experiences and debunk common myths! What stereotypes bug you the most? How do you overcome them and stay true to your unique blend of ambition (3) and creativity (4)? Whether it's work, relationships, or self-growth, your personal insights could help others on their journey. Jump in and let's change the narrative together! 💬 #Enneagram3w4 #BreakTheStereotype #ShareYourStory

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MovieBuff 6/16/2024 7:55:04 AM

Struggling with balancing my ambition as a 3w4. I thrive on achieving but feel disconnected from my true self. My inner 4 craves authenticity, yet I can't escape the fear of failure. This often leaves me oscillating between overworking and feeling hollow. How do other 3w4s navigate this tension? Any tips to align goals with genuine self-expression without the constant pressure of perfection? Would love practical advice or personal experiences. Thanks!

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OneLastTime_4ever 6/15/2024 9:53:13 PM

I'm curious about the dynamic between Type 3 and its 4 wing. For those who identify as 3w4, how do you navigate the tension between the achiever's drive for success and the individualist's pursuit of authenticity and depth? 🧐 Do you find that the 4 wing helps balance the often image-focused tendencies of the 3, or does it create more inner conflict? Share your experiences and any strategies you use to harmonize these seemingly contrasting traits. Thanks!

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TheFunOne 6/14/2024 10:52:14 PM

Hey everyone! 👋 I'm diving deep into understanding Enneagram Type 3 with a 4 wing (3w4), and I have a few questions. 😊 As someone who identifies as a 3w4, how do you balance the drive for achievement (Type 3) with the introspective and individualistic tendencies (Type 4)? I often find myself struggling between wanting to fit in and stand out at the same time. 😅 Also, how do you manage the emotions and self-doubt that come from the 4 wing while still pursuing your goals and maintaining your confidence? Any tips, personal experiences, or resources that you can share would be really appreciated! 🙏🏻 Thanks in advance for your insights! 🌟 #Enneagram #Type3w4 #SelfGrowth #Balance

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