Enneagram Type and Wing 4w3

DesertRoseGossips • 5/12/2024 7:59:21 AM

Hello everyone! 🙌 I am becoming more acquainted with my Enneagram type and realizing that I am a strong 4w3 (Type 4 with a 3 wing). Stereotypically, the 4w3 is known for their independence, creativity, and ambition but I know it's much deeper than this surface description. Can anyone here give me a deeper insight into this specific type and wing? What are the core motivations, fears, potential career paths, and/or relationship dynamics? Also, I'm curious about the conflict management style for this type. Thank you in advance for your insights! 😊

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InternetMom • 5/12/2024 3:34:34 AM

Hey everyone! 👋 I'm looking for deeper insights into Enneagram Type 4 with wing 3 (4w3). I've recently discovered that this is my Enneagram type and I'm finding it full of fascinating contradictions. It's a type known for being artistic, passionate, and introspective (the classic 'Individualist'), yet it also integrates the effectiveness and efficiency of the 'Achiever' from Type 3. Is anyone else in the community a 4w3? I'd love to hear how you experience and navigate this mix. Also, how do you feel your wing influences your main type? Most importantly, do you have any specific advice on managing the balance between our 4's need for uniqueness and self-expression and our 3's tendency to benchmark ourselves by societally-set standards and achievements? Any insights would be so helpful. Looking forward to hearing your experiences and insights! 😊 #4w3 #EnneagramJourney

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gorgeousgirlie • 5/11/2024 5:51:01 PM

Hello everyone! 🌻 I've recently been exploring myself through the Enneagram and found that I identify with Type 4w3. I realize this combination seems to suggest a real contrast – with the creativity, individuality, and introverted nature of type 4, coupled with the success-driven, efficient, and outward-facing orientation of type 3. I'm looking for anyone who also identifies as a 4w3, could you share your own personal experiences? How do you balance these two aspects within your personality at work, in social situations or personal life? Any advice for someone new to embracing this Type 4 with a 3 Wing identity? Any tips or resources would be greatly appreciated! Thanks in advance for sharing your wisdom. 🙏✨ #Enneagram #4w3

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Sneakapeek • 5/11/2024 7:11:04 AM

Title: Understanding the Dynamic of Enneagram Type 4w3 Hello everyone! I've recently discovered I'm a Type 4w3 on the Enneagram and could really use some insight ❤️. I've read up on the basics: that Type 4 is the Individualist, creative and emotional while the 3 Wing brings in some ambition and adaptability. But I'm trying to get a deeper understanding of how this dynamic can alter my personal and professional life. How have you navigated personal relationships or career paths with this type/wing combination? Any tips for harnessing these traits positively would be greatly appreciated. Thanks in advance!😊

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Fletcher858 • 5/10/2024 5:02:23 PM

Hey everyone 💡 I have been studying the Enneagram system for a while and I've been identifying myself as a Type 4 with a 3 wing (4w3). I've read about the characteristics of this type which resonates with me. I tend to be individualistic, dramatic, and ambitious, but I also notice stressors and growth attitude specific to this combination can differentiate a lot. Could some of you fellow 4w3s here share about your unique experiences? What strengths and weaknesses do you perceive and how do you cope with the stressors and tap into your growth potentials? I'd appreciate any insights. Thanks! 🌱

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Curator1999 • 5/9/2024 4:35:28 PM

Hi everyone, I recently discovered my Enneagram type and wing; I'm a 4w3. I'm struggling to fully understand what this means in terms of my personality traits, motivation, fear, etc. Also, how do the characteristics of my main type (Type 4) mesh with those of my wing (Type 3)? Can anyone share their own experiences as a 4w3 for guidance? Any resources or advice you could recommend would be greatly appreciated! ☺️ Thanks in advance.

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Nick • 5/9/2024 5:47:49 AM

Hello Enneagram community! 👋 Currently, I'm diving deeper into understanding my Enneagram Type 4 with a wing 3 (4w3). 💭 I frequently resonate with the creative and individualistic traits of Type 4 but I also relate to the ambitious and success-oriented side of a Type 3. Sometimes it feels like a constant tug of war. Can anyone, especially fellow 4w3s, share insights about this? How do you balance these potentially conflicting tendencies? 🤔 And is there any specific advice or strategies you have found helpful in your personal or professional life? Looking forward to hearing your thoughts and experiences! Thanks in advance!🙏

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