Enneagram Type and Wing 4w3

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UniverseOfAri 5/15/2024 2:12:31 AM

Hi everyone! 🌟 I'm diving deep into understanding the 4w3 combination and would love to hear your thoughts and experiences. As a core Type 4, we are known for our deep-seated need for individuality and authenticity. Adding a 3 wing, which brings in ambition and a desire for success, seems like a complex mix. How do you navigate the often conflicting desires of staying true to your unique self while also striving for recognition and achievement? Do you find that one side tends to overshadow the other in certain situations? How do you maintain a balance between these two driving forces? 💡 Also, I'd be super curious to know—how do you see this blend influencing your relationships and professional life? Any tips for harnessing the strengths and mitigating the weaknesses of this particular type and wing combo? Thanks so much! Looking forward to your insights. 🌺 #Enneagram #Type4w3 #SelfAwareness #BalancingAct

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Wannabemodel 5/14/2024 12:50:49 PM

Hi everyone, I have recently delved into studying about various Enneagram types and I am particularly curious about the Type 4 with a 3-wing (4w3). I am intrigued to further understand how this combination impacts an individual's behavior and worldview. How does the 4w3 experience emotions, deal with stress and interact with the world compared to other types? Also, what would be specific challenges and strengths of someone who identifies as a 4w3? I appreciate any insights or experiences you might share. Thanks!

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Dontstopbelieving 5/14/2024 7:33:58 AM

Hello Enneagram community! 😊 I'm curious about the dynamic of being a Type 4 with a 3 wing (4w3). Can anyone with this Type/Wing combination share your personal experience? Do you feel the balance between the introspective, individualist nature of 4 and the ambitious, driven traits of 3? How is this expressed in your day-to-day life? 🧩 Feel free to discuss both positive aspects and any struggles you might face. All viewpoints are welcome! #Enneagram4w3Discussion

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Mr.Popular 5/14/2024 2:08:56 AM

Hello Everyone! 😊 I've recently discovered my Enneagram type as a 4w3. Whilst I've read a lot about it online, I think it could be very helpful to hear from those who are also a 4w3 or have a deep understanding of this type. What are some of your personal experiences and how do you manage the unique set of strengths and challenges that come with being a passionate and driven 4w3? Do you have any strategies or resources on how to maintain a healthy balance between the four and three wing? I'm particularly curious about how to handle the emotional intensity that comes with this type. Any advice or insights you could provide would be truly appreciated. Thanks! 🙏🏼

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booklover2 5/13/2024 8:52:44 PM

Hello everyone! 😊 I've been studying Enneagram types for a while now and have been particularly drawn to Type 4w3. I'm intrigued by the idea of the "Individualist" with a "Achiever" wing; a persona marked by a deeply rooted desire for identity, significance, and also a pursuit of success. I'd love to hear from anyone familiar with this type or who identifies as a 4w3. What are some qualities, strengths, or characteristics you've noticed from this particular type-wing pairing? And how have they influenced your personal or professional life? Are there any struggles/challenges that come with being a 4w3? I'm fascinated to learn more. 📚 Thanks in advance!

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LemonadeStandMafia 5/13/2024 1:36:58 PM

Hi everyone, 😊 I've recently discovered that I'm a 4w3 on the Enneagram. 🙌 After doing some reading, I understand that this particular type encompasses a mix of traits from Types 4 (The Individualist) and 3 (The Achiever), but I'm interested in hearing more personal experiences. How does being a 4w3 impact your day-to-day life, behavior, relationships, and career choices? Also, how do you balance the creativeness and individuality of the 4 with the need for achievement of the 3 efficiently? Any advice or insight would be greatly appreciated. Thanks in advance! ✨

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VirtualRealityVenturer 5/13/2024 8:09:14 AM

Subject: Relationship Between Enneagram 4w3 Type and Its Influence on Personal Traits? Hello everyone! 🌼 I am newly discovering the complexity of the Enneagram chart and I find myself heavily aligning with a 4w3. While I understand that Type 4's are often described as Individualist or Romantic, and 3 wing adds a certain drive for success and recognition, I am still getting a grip on how these all play into my personality. Could someone kindly elaborate on how the characteristics from both the primary type 4 and wing 3 unite to give the unique blend that is 4w3? Does the 3-wing significantly alter the basic 4 personality by adding more ambition or does it merely slightly enhance certain traits? It would also be greatly appreciated if anyone could share some concrete day-to-day examples that reflect a 4w3's behavior or thought process. Feel free to share personal experiences if you're a 4w3. Insights and opinions are most welcome! 🙏 P.S. - Any suggestions on resources (books, blogs, podcasts) to delve deeper into 4w3 would be great. Thanks!

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StarryNightscape 5/13/2024 3:12:29 AM

Hey everyone! I'm new to the Enneagram journey and just found out that I'm a type 4w3. Trying to get a little more insight about this personality combination. To fellow 4w3s - what are some of your core traits that align with this type? And how does the wing 3 influence your type 4 tendencies? Also curious to hear if there's any good book or podcast you'd recommend that has helped illuminate your understanding of our type. Thanks in advance! 🌟😊 #enneagram #4w3

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BeyondPixels 5/12/2024 9:27:14 PM

Hello Everyone! 👋 I've recently been studying the Enneagram and learned that my type seems to be a 4 with a 3 wing (4w3).💭 I find this fascinating and am curious as to how exactly the 3 wing influences and contrasts with my core 4 type. I tend to feel the artistic introspection of type 4 quite well, but also feel the ache for accomplishments and success that seems to resonate with type 3. Does this combination appear conflicting to you all or does it make a sort of sense? Can anyone elaborate some more on this specific wing pairing and how it might manifest in daily behavior, relationships and work? 🌻 Also, who here is also a 4w3 and how do you experience your enneagram type and wing? Any information or shared experiences you can provide would be much appreciated! I'm very eager to understand and navigate this journey. Thanks in advance. 🙂🙏

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BunnyHop 5/12/2024 4:17:39 PM

Subject: Understanding the Interplay between Enneagram Type 4 and Wing 3 Hi all, 🖐️ I've recently discovered that I am an Enneagram Type 4 with a 3 wing (4w3). I'm quite curious about the intricate blend of these two types. Does anyone have any insights 🤔 on how the creative and introspective nature of 4 combines with the ambitious and efficient 3? Also, I'm a bit confused when faced with internal contradictions, especially at times when I feel a strong desire for individuality 👤 and simultaneously drive for success 🏆. How does this 'Individualist-Achiever' mix work in different areas like personal relationships, work, and self-growth? Any advice or resources 📚 on understanding and integrating these traits would also greatly be appreciated! Thank you in advance. - A curious 4w3 😊

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